"'Do You Invest Time Into Daydreaming About What Your Life Will Be Like When You Attain Your Goals?' by the Butterfly Marketing Team, the Most Effective Internet Marketers Today, Mike Filsaime, Paulie Sabol, Donna Fox and Tom Beal"
15. Do you invest time into daydreaming about what your life will be like when you attain your goals?
Mike Filsaime: Yes I do. I tend to night dream or day dream at night before I go to bed. I’m sure you’ve had that Ralph. Some of the people listening may be racing in their mind and get to bed at 11:30
pm then all of a sudden they look up and the clock says 12:50am. They saw “Wow! I’ve got to get to bed.”
Or you may say “Wow, if I can get this site up tomorrow and get this interview up.” Then you look over and its 2:30am and it’s like you can’t shut your mind off. But that’s healthy. That means that you are thinking in the right terms. Again whatever the mind can conceive the mind can achieve.
That is why Ralph it is so important that people don’t daydream on the negative things. So it’s best they don’t say “Oh my goodness I didn’t do my taxes yet and my car payment is 60 days behind.” You are attracting that negative energy.
If your car payment is 60 days behind and that’s all you are thinking of then you are thinking in wrong terms. You need to think in terms of “I want to gain financial success.” When you think in terms like that you will attract those things and the car payment issues will go away.
Yes I do tend to daydream quite often about my business and always think in terms of positive ways. Sometimes the negative things work their way into your thoughts and there is nothing you can do. You can’t shift on positive things so just don’t think of them at all
Just start thinking of clown feet (Laughter) or something like that. But if you can’t think of anything that’s positive at that time then almost go into a state of denial and just block it out because it’s not going to do any good to dwell on it or the negative.
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Paulie Sabol: I really don’t. I do, on the other hand, daydream about what the world can be like. You see, I will effect the world change that will outlast me, Ralph. So just like with the experiment with the finger, where I hold into view what is beyond, and in that way I know that my efforts are multiplied. That is the same situation for me.
I don’t spend so much time imagining what my life will be like when I attain my goals, because my goals are bigger than me. It is not about me. It extends beyond me. I want a legacy.
So imagine in a vision that world, that harmonious place with a heal environment, those are the things that I envision.
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Donna Fox: Not as much as you might think. I am actually really happy with my life. I am really happy with my day-to-day life.
Sure, I have goals that I would like to achieve but I think once you reach a level that you are comfortable with you stop wishing and dreaming.
Now there was a time in my life that I was constantly striving for something else, and it’s not even what I have now. It was just something different from what I had then.
I think once you reach a point where you are not striving any more and you find a place where you fit, then sure, you think about the future and you think about your goals and you hope for them, but you don’t dwell on them or daydream about them in the say way because you don’t need the escapism any more.
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TOM BEAL: Absolutely! I’m living my dream right now. I’m doing exactly what I dreamed. It doesn’t happen over night but when you have that and it’s a reality no matter what situation you’re in, and I’ve already envisioned this.
People ask “Tom when were you successful?” I was successful when I was homeless. I was successful when I was living in my car. I was successful when I didn’t have but $60.00 in my pocket.
I’ve been successful it’s just a matter of the material world manifesting it around to make it a reality in this time. It’s just a time difference.
RALPH ZURANSKI: Do you think that goes back to having a worthy ideal as expressed by Earl Nightingale?
TOM BEAL: 100%! I spend most of my time daydreaming because my life right now is a daydream even though I am still having tremendous adversities. Other people still look at me and say “Tom how can you be happy?”
It’s difficult but from that experience I had I truly feel I’m doing the best that I can. I have a second chance right now. This is my time. I’m living life full steam ahead and taking one bold step after the next enjoying every step ethically and honestly.
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